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And after all the obstacles
It’s good to see you now with someone else
And it’s such a miracle that you and me are still good friends

We used to think it was impossible
Now you call me by my new last name
Memories seem like so long ago
Time always kills the pain

Remember …..
The dreaming days where the mess was made
We have changed but we’re still the same..

And I’ll try to b happy for you
Circles and triangles, and now we’re hangin’ out with your new
girlfriend
So far from where we’ve been I know we’re cool…

"watz the of point regretting now….. when u turned down ur chance when it’s in front of u……."

People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When we figure out which one it is, we will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in our life for a REASON.

It is usually to meet a need we have expressed. They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally, or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend, and they are!?

They are here for the reason we need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on our part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die….

Sometimes they walk away….

Sometimes they act up and force us to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need had been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer we sent up had been answered.  And now it is time to move on.

Then there are people tt come into our life for a SEASON. Because our turn has come to share, grow, or learn.

They bring us an experience of peace, or make us laugh.

They may teach us something we have never done. They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it! It is real!

But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach us lifetime lessons: things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Our job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what we’ve learnt to use in all other relationships and areas of our lives.

So, r u here in my life for a Reason? a Season? or a Lifetime?

What Oprah Said About Men:

if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends".
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any
differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
…..He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. (hmm. tis i’ll like to add a ?)

You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and
you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother’s house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

"it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them."